The Obsessive Neurotic Gardener

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Posted on December 10, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

Some times an “a ha” moment hits when you least expect it.

My gardening “a ha” hit me about 6:00 AM on a ridiculously hot week day morning back in July. I was drenched to the bone in sweat, my hands were covered in blisters and I was trying to fight through one head rush after another as I continued to slam the shovel back into the ground. I was working on my new and improved garden bed along the back deck and it hit me.

“Dude, you are up at the crack of dawn on a work day putting yourself through hell for what reason?”. “Hmmmm … good question” I said out loud as I pounded away at the impenetrable clay soil. I thought for a moment and then the skies opened up, I danced the waltz with the deer, the Coors Light train passed through my backyard and I cried out “Because I like the way plants look together!”. What? You expected something more profound? Nope, it’s as simple as that.

I know the trend is to grow your own food and I’ve started doing just that. I can be a plant geek just like the next guy, but that isn’t enough for me. I am driven by the never ending search to combine plants in the best way possible. As I finished the garden bed renovation and started to place the plants together, I could feel the pleasure in my blood. Put me on Oprah and I’ll cry about it. It’s my first gardening love and I don’t see that changing any time soon.

Am I great at this companion plant thing? Not really. But damn it is fun trying. Every plant I own has been moved at least three times and while that may stunt their growth, so be it. I need to find plant combination nirvana and the only way to get there is through trial and error. With that said, I thought I would share some of my “plant combos” with you from the past year. Some were the result of hardcore analysis and others the result of complete luck. Onward             

This combination includes Daylily ‘Happy Returns’, Russian Sage, Purple Coneflower and Weigela ‘Wine and Roses’. I have managed to not touch this grouping for three years now as they have all thrived with very little care. I hope they are all ready for a change because I know I am. Nothing drastic, just some “tinkering”.   

Some times it is simply two plants that ended up next to each other and it was fate that they “connected”. This is Sedum ‘Red Carpet’ and Spirea ‘Little Elf’. I still can’t get enough of the red/scarlet foliage next to yellow/gold foliage. It has to be limited and subtle to work for me, and that is what I ended up with here.  

Another accidental pairing that I just can’t tear apart. I’m not a big fan of the purple and white color mix, but I can’t seem to break up this union. This is Catmint ‘Walker’s Low’ and Astilbe ‘Deutschsland’.

Peonies obviously look great on their own as the blooms deserve their own parade. But when the Campanulas finally bloomed this year I was super psyched. The blooms did not quite overlap but I’ll take peony buds over most flower blooms anyway.  

I love me some ornamental grasses and I love how this Panicum ‘Rotstrahlbusch’ breaks up the surrounding perennials including Black Eyed Susan, Lobelia Siphilitica and Sedum ‘Matrona’. The contrast in texture works and the grass moving with each subtle wind adds a whole new element to the grouping. 

This pairing has nothing to do with flowers. I just like the foliage contrast between the Hydrangea ‘Endless Summer’ and the Catmint ‘Walker’s Low’. 

More grass love. The flower heads of the Eupatorium ‘Gateway’ (Joe Pye Weed) and the foliage of the   Miscanthus ‘Morning Light’ are another pairing that work due to their contrasting shapes and textures.     

I still have my work cut out for me with containers, but I kind of like this combo. You can tell I didn’t take it too seriously as I don’t know the name of the purple annual I used and I don’t know the cultivar name of the yellow Arborvitae either.   

Have I mentioned yet that I like ornamental grasses? Miscanthus ‘Gracillimus’ might be my favorite right now as I love how it has become a focal point amongst all the other surrounding plants. 
This simple combo worked once autumn was in full swing as the red color of the Itea ‘Henry’s Garnet’ contrasts in both color and shape with the Sweet Flag ‘Oboruzuki’. 
I have already compiled my spring purchase list for next year and can’t wait to dabble in even more plant combinations. I know there is no perfect answer and that is why it is so enjoyable; there is always a better mix to dream up and play around with.
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  1. Gatsbys Gardens says
    December 10, 2010 at 12:46 am

    You’re good, I can’t seem to get off of last year yet. I will have to sit down after the first of the year and do what you are doing!

    Eileen

  2. Janet/Plantaliscious says
    December 10, 2010 at 7:11 am

    I, too, amd driven by finding great plant combinations and frequently move things around 2 or three times before I am happy. Part of me hopes that in time I will become knowledgeable enough that I know how to get it “right” first time, but I hope there will always be room in my garden for serendipity to teach me something new. My New Year’s Resolution is to document plant combinations through the seasons to act as a reference point. I particularly like your miscanthus/eupatorium combo, but that could be because its one I use 😉

  3. Anonymous says
    December 10, 2010 at 8:48 am

    Hi!
    “Because I like the way plants look together!”. I recommend you a book: The RHS Encyclopedia pf Planting Combinations-Tony Lord-Andrew Lawson
    For me a really good book,with nice pictures…
    Anyway for me is always funny to read your blog,ehhe
    Greetings from northern Italy
    James ,an agricolture student

  4. Britta says
    December 10, 2010 at 5:51 pm

    Dear Obsessive Neurotic Gardener,
    first: those pictures are marvelous!
    second: thank you for joining my blog!
    third: YES – your aha-moment is just what I think makes great gardens: colour, texture, three-dimension of the plants – and that means trial and error (and sometimes a nomade life for the perennials 🙂 Your silver and bue-lilac catmint and the gold of the hemerocallis: gorgeous! The peonies (I bet they are soft-pink) and the blue campanulas: beautiful! The grass – I could go on!
    Thank you!

  5. Is the Wiz says
    December 10, 2010 at 8:37 pm

    Oooh! and Aaaah! and Cor!

  6. Anything Fits A Naked Man says
    December 11, 2010 at 3:22 am

    Your plants are GLORIOUS!! I’m so happy I’m not the only one who constantly moves plants to get the right combination!! My favorites are the purple cornflowers, just gorgeous! And I love the way they attract the bright yellow finches!!

  7. Alison says
    December 12, 2010 at 8:28 am

    Great combos here, but the one that really caught my attention is Sedum ‘Red Carpet’ with Spirea ‘Little Elf’! Don’t know why I’ve never thought of doing red with yellow before, I’ve done black — ala mondo grass — with yellow, but not red. I’d love to see any more combinations you have of these two foliage colors together.

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