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Hi, me again

Posted on May 28, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in My garden .

The latest and greatest:

The Panicum ‘Northwind’ are on their way with that blue/green upright foliage already visible:

A step back from that same garden bed and finally, it is starting to fill in.

The foliage on this Ninebark ‘Diablo’ is fantastic in a container after I had cut it back dramatically in the spring:

 

Oh foliage, how I love thee – Salix (Dappled Willow) ‘Hakuro Nishiki’ and Penstemon ‘Husker’s Red’:

Have I mentioned before how much I love Lady’s Mantle? As an edger, in the rain, with cool weather?

So damn close:

 

Weigela ‘Wine and Roses’ in full bloom. Eh:

 

‘River Mist’ Northern Sea Oats … consider yourself on watch … you have been below satisfactory the past two years:

As I mentioned last week, these Siberian irises are in need of division. The bloom count is way down this year:

I chopped off the fading blooms on the Geranium ‘Espresso’ hoping we will get some nice new dark foliage. They are looking a little tired right now:

 

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Tags: lady's mantle, penstemon husker's red, peony .

Blooms

Posted on May 27, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Blooms .

Flowers aren’t so bad, even for a foliage leaning, ornamental grass loving guy like me.

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Who knew?

Posted on May 26, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Family .

I’ve been married to my wife for over 17 years now and we dated 5 years prior to that. We kind of know everything about each other … or so I thought.

I spent a good part of Saturday finally planting most of the plants I have had laying around the past few weeks.

Two Aconitum napellus (Monkshood):

Three Actaea simplex (Bugbane) ‘Black Negligee’:

An Andropogon gerardii (Big Bluestem) ‘Red October’:

Three more Amsonia hubrichtii:

Two Molinia (Moor Grass) ‘Cordoba’:

Completed the trifecta now that I have Joe Pye Weed ‘Baby Joe’ (also have ‘Little Joe’ and ‘Gateway’):

But enough about me. This is about my wife’s dirty little secret.

As I was lost in my world of digging holes, my wife stealthily made her way outside. I naively assumed she was just enjoying my handiwork or smelling the newly blooming lilacs. If that was the case though, why was she wearing disposable gloves and why was she carrying an extra large garbage bag? I snuck up closer and took position where she couldn’t see me. Once there, I studied her face and immediately noticed the unabashed determination. Girlfriend was on a mission. Was she going to remove all of my plants in a fit of anger? What the hell did I forget to do?

But once I saw exactly where she was headed, I knew what was going on. The woman I fell in love with 22 years ago was on a mission to remove poison ivy. I fell to my knees and cried with joy. I knew she had secretly tested her allergicness to the poison ivy a day or two earlier and was now in the clear. I can’t go near the stuff and it is literally taking over our gardens. My wife was ready to change that and holy crap did she attack it with gusto.

I literally heard her grunt as she pulled out the roots and nothing was going to stop her. The expletives flew out of her mouth as she looked like the anchor on a tug of war. This Russian Sage was about to be devoured and I was hopeless to do anything about it.

A few hundred pulls later and it was all cleared (RIP Perovskia):          

All of the poison ivy infiltrating the Nepeta (Catmint), friggin gone:

All in all, I would say 90% of the poison ivy has been eradicated and the garden has never looked better! My wife kicked ass and she knew it. She had a grin on her face like she just won a UFC bout.

I’m thinking about putting mini flags wherever I find signs of the vine in the future just to make it easier … OK, maybe I shouldn’t push it.

After the gargantuan effort, my wife deserved a chance to chill out and put her feet up. But no rest for the weary. Soon after we returned indoors, my wife whipped this up, spinach salad with strawberries, toasted pecans and goat cheese:    

Soon followed by brown sugar coated salmon:

Sigh …

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Tags: poison ivy .

Podcast – Michelle Gervais (Senior Editor, Fine Gardening magazine)

Posted on May 23, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Podcasts .

My latest podcast is in the books, as I had a chance to chat with Michelle Gervais, senior editor at Fine Gardening magazine. We talked plants, her backstory and how it led to Fine Gardening magazine and why we share a non-liking for annuals.

You can listen to it here.

Check out her eye candy filled blog on the Fine Gardening website – Garden Photo of the Day

Enjoy!

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Tags: Fine Gardening .

Yet another virtual garden tour

Posted on May 21, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in My garden .

Geranium ‘Espresso’ continues to bloom its arse off:

With trepidation, I made a decision to underplant all of these geraniums with Lysimachia. Brown/yellow color combo, 1970’s anyone?:

Sigh …

Still a sucker for a purple/yellow combination:

Not sure how, but the tiny little Lilac I planted last summer is blooming like mad already:

The Astilbe show is coming to a yard near me soon:

If you set a foot outdoors in my yard today, you are overwhelmed with the scent of Honeysuckle from the 100 or so shrubs that are on my property. Kind of delicious:

While they are nearing bloom time, let’s face it, Lady’s Mantle are all about how they capture the raindrops:

Tsuga canadensis (Eastern Hemlock) ‘Moon Frost’ just put on its new growth and looks fantastic:

Same goes with Juniper ‘Gold Cone’:

Panicum (Switch Grass) ‘Heavy Metal’ has made an appearance and we welcome her with open arms:

But most importantly, there are actual signs of a true “garden”. Plants co-mingling and looking OK:

Good times.

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How not to relax

Posted on May 19, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Garden problems .

I had every intention on Sunday afternoon to simply take inventory of all that was going on in the garden. No shovel, no pruning shears, not even a container to throw weeds in. You might call it a sojourn or gentle stroll or if you were me, you would call it a walk amongst awesomeness. It would be a chance to enjoy new blooms, or buds or even continued foliage growth without the need to do anything.

And after a good three seconds of staying the course, we suddenly had a change in plans. The f’n dreaded to-do list was created, updated on the appropriate Excel document labeled “to-do” and each line item was color coded based on the date it would get done. This isn’t some silly fodder for another blog post, I can send you all a copy of the document as proof. Gardening as “relaxing pastime”, ha, that is for someone else who doesn’t understand the severity of what we are dealing with here. Here’s a taste:

The Siberian irises should be close to blooming, but I am consumed with the need to yet again divide so many of these that have formed bare spots in their centers:

Now that all of the Clethra’s have leafed out, I have to prune off all of their spent blooms from last year. Why didn’t I do that on a slow late winter’s day?:

And just like that, the peonies are in bud. And just like that, it is time to fend off the deer so I can cut a bunch of these and roll in the bed with them give them to my wife to add to vases all over the house:

 

The poison ivy is everywhere and it is time to finally address it head on. Need to check my wife’s schedule this week:

Oh I suppose you would like to be planted some time soon?:

“Deadhead for more flowers”. Oh yeah:

My little raised bed needs reinforcements now that the tomatoes have been planted and the deer have all tweeted out that information to each other:

That dead spot on the boxwood has been eating away at me for weeks and I have no excuses:

Time to research what has happily reseeded to see if it can stay or has to go:

If I could move that Carex just 6 inches to the right, I could start to lessen the shakes that have developed:

What the f is growing under my Weigela ‘Wine and Roses’?:

Brown is the new green, right? No?:

What Baptisia did I not remember planting here? Will it possibly have enough room in the future? What can I plant around it now until it fills in? This is so relaxing:

I am so glad that I have improved my spacing of plants skills:

 

And now I am even more stressed recounting the story to y’all.

 

How about something a little light before we end it?

 

Don’t even ask about the inspiration for this one. Just know my neighbors have the same exact concerns.

Maybe my daughter has the right approach.

And by right approach, I mean get dressed up in my dance wares, dance my ass off and then kick back and enjoy getting the stress out. Girlfriend doesn’t have a care in the world.

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Dance with the one that brung ya

Posted on May 15, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Perennials .

I have a ritual each winter where I review all of my plant photos from the prior gardening year as a means to not only escape the winter doldrums, but also as a means for planning. I drink a few hearty ales and take copious notes during this exercise and it creates the framework for all that I plan to change that upcoming spring.

I distinctly remember two winters ago, when I was in full blown garden review mode, when a very obvious notion finally penetrated my thick skull. Four simple words: “Stick with what works.” As most gardeners are want to do, I was always in search of new and exciting plants to try out. While that is fun and all, it really prevented me from creating my ideal robust garden. Half the plants would die over the winter or would be devoured by the deer. I was unable to make any progress out in the garden.

I knew I wouldn’t completely give up on seeking out new plants, but I could create the bulk of my garden around trees, shrubs, grasses and perennials that I knew would “work”. Seems like an obvious concept but for whatever reason, it was lost on me.

Fast forward to now and finally I know all of the plants that survived the winter. There were a whole bunch of casualties that I’ve mourned, but for those recent additions that survived the extreme temps, poor winter/spring drainage and the deer, I am forever grateful. As expected, these survivors were previously proven performers, further proof that “stick with what works” … well … works. And here is photographic proof:

As you may be aware, I have nothing but great things to say about Amsonia. They have literally sat in standing water for periods of time and have been completely ignored by the deer. When I was seeking out a ground cover in a particularly poor draining area of the garden, Amsonia ‘Blue Ice’ was a no-brainer. Two years later, all twelve of them are thriving:

 

As are all of the Amsonia tabernaemontana:

 

Itea ‘Henry’s Garnet’ was one of the first shrubs I planted in my landscape back in 2005 and all of them are still kicking ass today. So logically, why not add some ‘Little Henry’ shrubs in tighter areas. I did just that last fall and yes, all six of them are on their way this spring:

For reasons unknown, I owned only two Clethra shrubs as of a year ago, even though they have thrived since day one. So last fall I picked up a bunch more of these at a steep discount and finally this week, they have all arrived after a long deep winter slumber:

Irises and me = perfect together:

Lady’s Mantle has consistently been ignored by the deer and the rabbits so why not use it like mad as a ground cover all over. Seems to be OK with both full sun and partial shade:

Two Penstemon ‘Husker’s Red’ hung out in my garden for years, looking good but not adding much to the larger equation. I divided them up, two became six and as a larger grouping, not so bad:

I haven’t completely abandoned the pursuit of new plants. Just this week I added Allium ‘Blue Eddy’ knowing the deer will ignore it but now to study how it likes the moist clay soil:

Speaking of Allium, I’m testing out ‘Globemaster’ this year for the first time and so far so good:

And finally, I finally succumbed to trying out a few Baptisia and we’ll see how they perform:

 

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Tags: amsonia blue ice, itea, lady's mantle .

A garden update

Posted on May 12, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in My garden .

Here’s what’s new out in the garden:

My young Malus (Crabapple) ‘Prairie Fire’, recently saved from an invasion of tent caterpillars, is in full bloom and I am loving it:

Not so long ago I complained about the lack of variegation on the Salix (Dappled Willow) ‘Hakuro Nishiki’. Not so much any more:

  

Newly in bloom is Geranium ‘Espresso’, but the foliage is the true winner here:

I have promised my daughter she will faint at the sight of the bloom of Allium ‘Globemaster’. Why I planted only one is still a mystery to me:

Here come the peonies and a potential showdown with the neighborhood deer:

I continue to love Juniper ‘Gold Cone’ more and more:

The heliotrope are planted and me likey:

And the pansies continue to thrive:

My precious lemon has turned into … well … a lemon … and soon we will all enjoy said lemon in some sort of celebratory ceremony, still to be determined:

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Tags: crabapple, geranium 'espresso', salix .

Why I post so often

Posted on May 7, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Blooms, Foliage .

I have this friend (dude knows who he is) who on more than one a hundred occasions has asked me “How can you possibly take any more pictures of your garden? Seriously, you have like hundreds of posts in only four years, haven’t you said/photographed it all?”

First off “friend”, and I use the term loosely, I have actually posted 868 times since February of 2010. And while some of the posts are of questionable mind, most are simply an observation of what is going on in my garden at that time. I introduce new plants to my garden each season/year, plants get more robust with age, take on a completely different look and feel when relocated within the garden, change dramatically through the seasons and often times die. And many times it is a combination of all of these things. That is why I can take hundreds of photographs in one session.

Here are some examples just from today.

This is my first witness to a Fothergilla blooming in my own garden as I just planted it last Fall:

I dig the bottlebrush like flowers and are even cooler up close:

I get all jonesed up seeing my Redtwig Dogwood leafing out, knowing we are transitioning from early to mid spring:

 

Before I know it, it will fill out completely and take its understated turn in the landscape:

The Amsonia are finally emerging from the ground and I frickin love how they look when doing so:

The next step is seeing the first buds forming:

Soon following will be a cacophony of buds:

Then the first bloom:

And finally full bloomage:

All of the foliage on the Astilbes have this cool red/brown/green/rust combo right now and it is fantastic:

Eventually it will settle in all green with hints of red stems:

Then the first buds appear:

And then boom, we’ve got serious blooms:

 

The photos tell the story and that alone, friend, should give you enough evidence as to why I am now easily completing my 869th post.

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Tags: amsonia, Astilbe 'Amethyst', fothergilla, redtwig dogwood .

We’ve got blooms

Posted on May 5, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Blooms .

Viburnum carlesii ‘Aurora’:

 

 

 

Trollius (Globeflower) ‘Orange Princess’:

 

 

 

Phlox subulata (Creeping Phlox) ‘Emerald Blue’:

 

Ajuga (Bugleweed) ‘Chocolate Chip’:

Not necessarily a bloom, but still a cool shot of a peony:

OK, no blooms again, just sun + green = happiness:

And the daffodils are hanging on:

 

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Tags: ajuga, creeping phlox, trollius, viburnum carlesii .

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