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Memorial Day weekend in photos

Posted on May 31, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

Oh yeah, summer has arrived.

You could smell it and feel it in the thick humid air.

It felt therapeutic and everything was “A OK”.

Without further ado, I give you the weekend in photos:     

One last peony photo, I promise. They are actually on their way out with all the blooms dropping to the ground. Until next year my dears … and thank you again for another incredible display this year. You never disappoint.   

The Sedum ‘Red Carpet’ are blooming and to be honest, I didn’t expect any blooms. They caught me off guard this morning and that isn’t easy to do. Time to update in the plant database – “expect red blooms in late Spring”.  

I now give you the full life cycle of the Hypericum ‘Albury Purple’. You’ve seen the foliage, the buds forming and now an actual bloom. Actually wait, I’ll have to show you a photo of the berries later in the season. Aren’t you just so lucky?

Like a steam train spotted in the distance, here come the Daylily ‘Happy Returns’ blooms. It is like the calm before the storm right now. Within the next week, it will be a bloom-a-palooza and I will deadhead these relentlessly. I am sort of OCD with the deadheading part knowing it will help with future blooms.    

I know, boring, a Purple Coneflower bloom, well move on to the next photo quickly if you are so inclined; I can’t get enough.  

I do not know what type of annual flower I’ve got here. I made the mistake of buying these without a label on them. But, I have discovered how cool these blooms unfold – the purple petals slowly open to display the white daisy-like flower – man I am a fascinating person, huh? 

One week later, and the zinnia seeds I sowed with the kids are emerging at a rapid pace. I am so psyched to check out these ‘Green Envy’.

Meet enemy #1. The rabbits are everywhere and they are on a mission to piss me off. I have seen enough signs of their cute little nibling and I don’t like it. Yes they are cute, just from a distance.
   

What a cool ass stone can do to a planting.

Summer time = fresh brewed ice tea – there is nothing better other than ….

Strawberry goat cheese bruschetta. I can’t say enough about these – the perfect combination and with fresh thyme they are off the chizzain. The strawberries just pop when you eat them and the melted goat cheese – I now need a cold shower.

After gardening, baseball may be my next biggest obsession. I threw pop-ups to my son all weekend and it was like watching myself as a child. I actually started writing for a New York Mets fan site this past week. Now I have to find a way to bring the two worlds together – any suggestions?    

Relaxation on the deck – do you like my toe nail color?

My wife’s birthday was on Monday and (prepare to praise me heavily) I bought her tickets to see Bon Jovi (on the floor, about twenty rows from the stage) at the newly christened Giants Stadium. When I tell you she is a fan – she is a HUGE FRIGGIN fan). Her sentences now end with Bon Jovi lyrics – it’s a sight to see. If I were to allow my wife to run off with one man it would be Jon Bon Jovi – I would understand.    

One last photo just to prove how hot it was today. The hydrangeas were all drooping and in need of shade. Hang in there little guy!

Hope you had a great weekend and remembered what we were truly celebrating.

Enjoy. 

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Getting the kids involved

Posted on May 27, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

I am a gardening loner.

Just me hanging with my plants is all I need. My happy place.

I can get lost for hours if left to my own devices, and it never gets dull or tiring. It is like a form of meditation where nothing else exists.

If it were possible, I would perform yoga in the garden among the plants, but then I would truly qualify as “creepy guy” (although it would be funny as hell to watch).

Lately, though, I have paid closer attention to the need to get kids involved with gardening and the great outdoors knowing it will have a profound influence on them. In the past, my first reaction was to nod my head in approval only to quietly say to myself  “No thanks, they’ll just complain and eventually make their way to the swings.” or  “I know they’ll run for the hills at the first sign of any insect”. I resisted allowing them into my domain where they could only screw it all up.

Well, I have accepted that I can have it both ways – ONG time and ONG time with the little ones. The kids may only hang for a short period of time, and it may seem like they were unaffected by our interactions, but I have recently witnessed two events that refute that notion.      

First, a few photos with me and the kids and our recent project:               

We planted a bunch of annual seeds in containers (mostly Zinnias) and planted a few tomato, basil and pepper plants in containers as well. They dug the dirt, planted the seeds and watered  – not always in that order however.

The kids lasted about twenty minutes, with my daughter a bit more interested and involved. She especially took to planting the actual seeds. They did make their way to the playground eventually, but I felt like I made the effort to really make them a part of the process. Kudos to me.

Now on to the two recent events I mentioned earlier:

Story #1 – Early last evening, I was out on the back deck moving containers around like a frickin mad scientist trying to find that “right look”. I felt like I was on the “Price is Right” where I would complete an arrangement, pull a lever and then see if I won (the show is so in my blood from days off from school when I was younger – and I still take issue with the Showcase Showdown rules … but that is for another day … I digress). As I was moving a container with newly sprouted Zinnia leaves I completely dropped it and everything fell out of the pot. Like a mature adult, I kicked the pot and cursed like a mutha f’er. What I didn’t realize, was that my daughter was watching out the back door and she ran away crying. I assumed she didn’t like seeing her Dad act like such a baffoon, so I ran in to apologize and calm her down. Well, the adult meltdown apparently meant nothing to her as she told my wife through her tears that “Daddy ruined the seeds.” Wow, we are making some big time progress here!

Story #2 – While waiting for the school bus this morning, my son spotted a weed that had sprouted a daisy like bloom. He immediately yanked it and asked me to put it in water for Mom. Now he has done this before so it wasn’t a complete shock. What was shocking and I swear on … something … he actually told me to remove the leaves from the bottom of the flower before putting it in water. Are you kidding me? Next he’ll tell me how to cut a rose stem on an angle so it will then grow outward.

My wife loves to get the kids involved when she bakes and she has experienced the same thing I discussed above. It may seem like a futile task and it may seem like they could care less but dammit if they don’t surprise you with what they have retained.

Note to self – keep educating and opening their eyes to new things. 

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Wordless Wednesday Woo

Posted on May 26, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .
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Peony and Rose photos

Posted on May 25, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

I thought about saving the photos below for a Wordless Wednesday post and then thought, “Screw that, I’ll do it now.” I’ll worry about Wednesday when it’s Wednesday. Maybe I’ll even skip on the wordless aspect and try one of the following:

Wacky Wednesday – Lord knows I could come up with some good stuff for this
Warrant Wednesday – a chance to incorporate plants and 80’s hair metal … hmmmmm
Wobbly Wednesday – take a bunch of photos after a drinking binge
Witless Wednesday – just the facts; cut and dry
Want it Wednesday – photos of all plants I do not have but deeply desire

I’ll have to mull these over and surprise you all. Feel free to offer up your own suggestions. I am up for the task. Until then:  
 

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My first client

Posted on May 24, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

Yesterday marked my first official jump into the garden makeover realm. I’ve helped out friends and family before, but that was more “advice” than anything else. This makeover was on a small scale but enough that it required full planning and a full day’s work.

Here’s the rub – it was for a very tough client who I know from past experience can be very demanding and rule with an iron fist. This client is rough around the edges and we’ve had a number of issues in the past. If this job fails, it will haunt me for years to come. This client is … my parents … and it is at the home I grew up in. Alright so maybe I built some false drama, but if this “job” is done wrong it will make for awkward family dinners for years to come; not to mention a big hit to my inheritance.           

Some quick background on the “project” (like making it sound professional):

  • Scope – Garden bed wrapping around the front of a 1950’s Cape Cod. All existing plants have been pulled  from the bed due to overgrowth and general “blah-ness”.   
  • Zone – Northern NJ – zone 6
  • Exposure – partial sun
  • Soil – rich and loamy like I’ve never seen before (beyond jealous)
  • Budget – there is no budget – we’re talking carte blanche here
  • Time frame – one day 
  • Client is looking to move within 2 years (side note: due to retirement and to be closer to their children/grandchildren down my way)

ONG was on the road by 6:00 AM Sunday and at the site by 7:15. After downing a bagel (and after New York City, there is no better place to get a bagel – it’s the water, seriously, google it and you’ll see) we surveyed the yard for measurements and potential transplants.    

So here are the “before” photos:

Here were my thoughts upon inspection:

  • Railroad ties are to be removed 
  • Bed shape needs to be more of a swooping (technical term) curve along the front
  • Need a few large evergreens to anchor it all
  • Need color and varying textures/leaf shape/color
  • Low maintenance (not that my p’s couldn’t handle it – they are in incredible shape at their age)

We headed out to the nursery right at opening and filled up three carts in no time. I gave my parents the low down on each and every tree, shrub or perennial we passed by and I think, just maybe, I impressed them a little. When I am in that mode, I have a definite jump in my step and I feel like this is what I am supposed to do. I’m not quite sure if that means landscape design, horticulture, nursery owner or maybe goofy home gardener who writes too much about it in his blog. Either way, we found each other and it feels real good.

Well, I now give you the results. While they may not be overwhelmingly breath-taking, I think we were all very happy by the end of the day. Either that or my parents didn’t want to knock me off my pedestal. Here they are:

Here you can see the curve in the bed line. We lined the front with a mix of Heuchera and variegated Liriope. I tried to sell them on the Blackout Heucheras, but no dice. The Hosta was a transplant from the backyard. to the right are three Ilex ‘Compacta’.
     

The three taller shrubs are Baptisia Twilite ‘Prairie Blues’ that have real interesting blooms and great leaf shape.
   

A view as the bed wraps around the front. Those are Salvia ‘May Night’. Behind these is an Ilex ‘Blue Prince’ that we dished out some major cash for but it really anchors that area.
 

More of the same

A close-up of the Baptisia blooms.
Three Knockout roses in front of three Boxwoods. The addition of the birdbath made all the difference adding hardscape and more height to the area.

 

My Dad and I at the conclusion of the day. Dirty, sweaty and feeling good about things. You can also see we added another Ilex ‘Blue Prince’ in the background to mirror the other one.

Now, today’s job is a start and I hope to tackle my sister’s yard next. I thoroughly enjoyed every aspect of the day and most importantly, enjoyed the quality time with my parents. I won’t forget the day and know I will look back fondly on it for many years to come. It feels good to give back after everything they’ve done for me my entire life.

Love you Mick and John 

Ciao   

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Fantastic Friday Fotos of Flowers and Foliage

Posted on May 21, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Blooms, Foliage .

OK … maybe a slight exaggeration … but it makes up for last week’s Friggin Furious Friday post.

Another early morning (about 5:45 AM) out in the yard granted me oodles of positivity and these are the photos to reflect that. It was sunny and warm and I gobbled up that shit with a spoon.    

This is a Sedum ‘Matrona’ and I fell in love with her at the nursery yesterday. The shape of the leaves, the reddish/pink hue of the leaves and the fact that it is an upright Sedum had me at “hello”. The plan is to plant these along with some good ol’ Rudbeckia for a sweet late summer display.          

I “heart” you

The Russian Sage foliage is looking sweet and I think it looks great even without the flower spikes. The gray/green color contrasts well with other green-foliaged perennials. I have three of these planted next to Daylillies and Purple Coneflower. This is also the only area these have thrived for me because there is good drainage.     

A lesson I have learned in the past year or so. Do not immediately pull weeds until they have developed and they can be further inspected. This is a bonus Russian Sage that emerged a few feet from the others. Welcome to the world little guy, we promise to make it a safe and secure place for you.  

The Daylily blooms are coming, the Daylily blooms are coming. And so starts the task of daily deadheading to keep things looking nice and to promote further bloom. Maybe I’ll take a short video on how to properly deadhead these. Sweet.  

This is a shot only a parent could love. It is an Achillea and it is all about perseverance for me. I have dragged this poor bastard all over the place and he continues to survive under adverse conditions. Mom and dad are so proud of you little guy.  

Achillea bloom on it’s way.

Echinacea/Purple Coneflower bloom. There is nothing more reliable than these and I have made it a point to deadhead regularly to keep them looking fresh longer into the season. And of course you have to enjoy the bee orgy that ensues once these are in full bloom.     

The whole family has been chowing down on this Red Salad Bowl lettuce for a a few weeks now. In the words of one of my all time favorite personalities “Isn’t she a beauty”. RIP Croc Hunter.    

More lettuce – regular Salad Bowl. Almost too nice to eat. I am going to get more creative planting these lettuces next year. The colors are tremendous and the leaf shape begs for mixing with other veggies.

This is an example of a typical ONG gardening practice. This is a Sambucus ‘Black Lace, google it and you’ll see how gorgeous these are. The problem is I have no room for it where I don’t think the deer will get to it. So the solution is always to pot it up and wait until some creative idea comes to mind.   

I know I know … wow Rudbeckia foliage … have never seen that before … how friggin unique ONG. Well, I don’t care, come deal with my water logged soil and then we’ll talk. On second thought, maybe it really isn’t all that riveting … oh well …we move on.   

I will continue to post photos of the Knockout roses because even though they are care free, they are still rose blooms. I do hope, however, that my Grandfather is not rolling over in his grave. He had the most unbelievable roses and tended to them night and day with supreme precision. Love you Pop!     

Wow, another rose photo … what a shocker, huh? 

An Echinacea ‘Fragrant Angel’ bloom. As I’ve mentioned before, I have virtually no sense of smell but I can get a whiff of these if I stick my nose right in there. Real real incredible scent.

God I love Astilbe foliage. So unique and yes, I am going to say it, dainty. Now I should be shot. 

“Before” shot of one of my front beds. Also “before” I had my new camera. Like the pinkish hue do you?

Another “before” photo. To quote Simon Cowell, a “ghastly” leggy Ilex.

Well I have since replaced the three shrubs in front with three Ilex ‘Bennet’s Compact’. These are much more full and compact (imagine that) and will grow to 4 x 4. I like them as foundation shrubs as they are evergreen and make a nice back drop for the perennials, bulbs and grasses that will be in front of them.

That is all for today folks. I will be spending all day Sunday making over my parents front beds so you can bet there will be a post early next week with the results. If not, you know I bombed bad.

Enjoy the weekend.  

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Enjoying the ride

Posted on May 20, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

I gave you a breather yesterday, on Wordless Wednesday, so I hope you took full advantage.

Cause I am back with another post that may push the limits of being garden oriented, but I will try like hell to tie it all together.

I figure that since I am still a newbie garden blogger, I can still get away with some things under the guise of “working the kinks out”. It’s funny, I have a lot of strange ideas that float inside of this partially functioning brain of mine, and some times they work, other times they fail miserably. The fun is putting it all on paper (figuratively speaking) and then trying to fine tune it into something that people may actually enjoy reading (you should see what ideas never made it to print).

Case in point – my attempt at an Eat, Pray, Love remake (see my earlier posts on “Dig, Plant, Grow” – can’t help it, the title still makes me laugh). The idea popped into my head on my drive into work one day and I really thought it could be funny. The problem is in order to appreciate it you would have to know the premise behind the original book, understand gardening and have a bizzaro sense of humor like mine. Based on the early results that are in, the studios will not be knocking down my door any time soon. Yet, I truly enjoyed writing the first two installments as it got the creative juices flowing. I’m not embarrassed by it and it won’t stop me from looking at gardening from a unique perspective. I’ll just keep plugging away at it hoping to eventually find my niche as a blogger (or maybe I have no niche – which could be interesting too).

Now here is where I tie the gardening piece in. Admittedly, all of my garden beds should be nearing completion by now. I have dedicated a lot of time and physical effort over the years to doing so. Yet, there I am on Wednesday morning at 5:45 AM (yes I have followed my plan to work early in the morning) tearing out three shrubs along my foundation with a “new and improved” plan in place. How long will this new plan last? Beats me, but for right now it feels right and gardening is really one of those past times where you learn much more from your mistakes than you do from your successes. So if it doesn’t work, I’ll just draw up a new plan and continue my game of musical transplanting. The fun is in the planning and trying to come up with something that feels magical when it is executed properly – even if that magic is fleeting.

To further the conversation on being “creative”, I have been spending a lot of time trying to come up with a way to make my blog more interactive with those who are reading it. I realize people read it for different reasons and that the level of gardening passion may vary quite a bit. I also realize many of you just want to scan it real quick and then move on. Maybe I am being narcissistic, but I do think there is an opportunity to do something that we could all share together. Here are a few ideas I have been developing:

  • All agree on a particular plant to try out together even if it doesn’t necessarily fit your exact conditions. We could all post the photos of the results and maybe learn a thing or ten. I saw something similar on Twitter, so by no means am I trying to claim that I had the original idea.
  • Feature a particular location in a different reader’s yard with everyone providing feedback on what to plant and then track the results from beginning to end.
  • All agree on a unique topic or discussion point (even if non-gardening related) and then have different readers post their perspectives on it.    

Maybe this is all a bit far reaching for someone like me who is still new to this, but what the hell, why not think big.

Thank you for making it to this point and surviving yet another post. Your feedback would be so so appreciated, even if it is, “more wordless postings please”.

Namaste

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Way Wordless Wednesday

Posted on May 19, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

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Time to find time

Posted on May 18, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

“If you’ve got the time we’ve got the beer”

Quick, name the beer commercial … tick tick … Jeopardy theme playing … tick tick … give up? That would be Miller High Life. See the 1979 commercial here. This commercial just makes me feel good for some reason.

Anyway, I definitely have the beer (garage is stocked with Sierra Nevada, Magic Hat and Sam Adams) but the “time” is a different story.

Let me preface first by saying, I wouldn’t change a thing in my life right now. A beautiful wife/best friend/ partner in crime, two fantastic and healthy children, best dog known to man and a kick ass house/property out in the country in small town NJ (yes that is possible you haters). But …. time for personal enjoyments (i.e. gardening) is extremely limited. You know that going in so it’s hard to really complain – it’s just reality.

Now I know I tend to lean a tad bit negative (maybe cynical is a better term) but this post is now going to switch paths and go all positive on your ass.

This morning the alarm went off at 5:45 AM and rather than spoon my wife and force her to stay in bed until 6:30 AM, I immediately got up, put on the appropriate gear (which looked very criminal-like this morning – black hoodie and black Adidas pants) and headed outside. I was determined to get in a good 45 minutes of gardening tasks before our morning truly started.

To add to the drama, there was a steady rain and it was in the high 40’s. Did that impede me at all? Can I get a “hell no”? It may not seem like much but I:

  • Planted a recently purchased Yucca (where have you been all my life you structural minx?).

  • Removed and discarded two Ilex Glabra, along the front foundation, that redefine the term “leggy”.

  • Trekked through the mud and determined my new layout where the Ilex were located (lots of shrubs in pots moved around until I found the right look). 

I set foot back in the house at 6:29 AM and felt INVIGORATED (my absolute favorite term right now). It’s amazing how much can get done in a short period of time. I am super determined to do this same thing every morning. It will be tough – my wife and I are night owls and usually are not asleep until around midnight each night (me a little later after watching P Allen Smith re-reruns) but I can’t pass up this new found “time”. I’ll let you all know how successful I am as the days pass.

So crack me open a cold Miller my beer swilling buddies … cause I now have the time and I got the beer.

Cheers!                           

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Buzz words – kicking it gardening style

Posted on May 17, 2010 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

A new contribution I wrote for my homies over at digthedirt.com: 

http://www.digthedirt.com/contributions/4211-Buzz-words-kicking-it-gardening-style-

I know I’ve mentioned it a ton already, but you really need to take some time out to play around with this site.

Thanks
ONG 

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