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Daily garden journal – 1/15/25

Posted on January 15, 2025 by jmarkowski Posted in Deer .

Deer.

A foe, yes.

But as I ponder our past relationship over the years/decades, I think maybe I owe them some gratitude. And even a thank-you. Why?

Their eating habits made me work harder in the garden and also when planning.

They forced me to embrace the reality that a garden is meant to be shared.

And most importantly, their presence limited my garden palette which made my life easier once I accepted that limitation. Hello ornamental grasses! ONG loves the OG’s.

And I enjoy watching them winter, spring, summer and fall while they roam the backyard as I sit behind the desk in my home office on yet another mindless conference call.

How’s that for Zen and positivity? Welcome to the new “me”. I think you’ll enjoy it.

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Deer – DGP

Posted on September 11, 2023 by jmarkowski Posted in Deer .

It always happens.

Yet I’m the dummy who thinks, “Maybe this is the time it won’t happen?”

Inevitably, I’m wrong.


It happened again last night.

Buttonbush

My Buttonbush shrub (Cephalanthus occidentalis) devoured by the deer. Only a few “buttons” left behind.

Carnage.

It’s not surprising. The deer have done it before. A lot.

And you know what, they have every right to do it. This shrub isn’t marketed as “deer resistant” so all bets are off. I knew what I was getting into.

Am I sad? Yes. I planned to feature it here in a few days and I looked forward to the flowers persisting into winter.

But that won’t be happening.

Such is life.

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Tags: buttonbush .

I’m giddy over Plantskydd

Posted on June 5, 2018 by jmarkowski Posted in Critters, Deer .

Y’all told me and I finally listened.

And shit, you were all right.

This Plantskydd stuff works (fingers crossed that it will continue).

The deer have been hovering and yet they haven’t touched a thing since I starting use this a week ago.

The best part? I didn’t have to re-apply after the rain. And we’ve had a lot of rain this past week.

The leaves were sprayed (and yes, I didn’t fear the temporary coloration of the leaves. I read labels) and that was it.

My precious peonies haven’t been touched.

The Baptisia has been ignored.

 

The Sambucus, which has never grown more than a few inches before being chewed down, actually bloomed some.

Ninebark ‘Amber Jubilee’ foliage continues to grow without interruption.

My dear Filipendula are thriving. And I’m crying tears of joy.

But I’m most excited about my Thalictrum. It has never survived to full bloom and it appears we are finally on our way.

 

Thank you readers and commenters.

Once again you’ve proven that you’re way smarter and more aware than me.

More to come with this.

 

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Tags: plantskydd .

Fothergilla Mt Airy

Posted on November 11, 2016 by jmarkowski Posted in Deer, Shrubs .

If I had to choose the most disappointing plant in my garden right now, it would be Fothergilla Mt Airy. I have had two of these shrubs in the ground for four years now and while their features in isolation are killer, they havenโ€™t matured to a level I would have expected by now.

Issue #1 โ€“ While I see them marketed as โ€œdeer resistantโ€, both of mine are consistently nibbled throughout the seasons. Theyโ€™ve never been hit hard, but the nibbling has prevented them from growing much taller than 30 inches tall.

Issue #2 โ€“ While Iโ€™m sure this is related to issue #1, Iโ€™ve had very sporadic blooming in spring. To the point that I barely even notice the white bottlebrush blooms. Itโ€™s a shame because the blooms are beautiful and fragrant (which of course is a relative term to this sufferer of a deviated septum).

Both of my Fothergilla Mt Airy are situated in a partially shaded location and Iโ€™m contemplating moving one in spring to a more full sun area that would also be (fingers crossed) protected from the deer.

Itโ€™s all about experimentation with gardening, but Iโ€™ve got all winter to plan the move.

Here is the foliage color somewhere around the end of September.

fothergilla mt airy

fothergilla mt airy

Fantastic but damn if it couldn’t have an even bigger impact at 4 to 5 feet tall and wide.

Here are two photos of Fothergilla Mt Airy current day. The foliage color is a more consistent orange but still a presence.

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blonde-ambition

Late April/early May is when I’ve seen the first signs of bloom. The photos below, taken over the course of the past few springs, only show you the good. The bare branches have been successfully removed from sight.

Still, nice enough.

fothergilla mt airy

fothergilla mt airy

fothergilla

I have no intention of giving up on Fothergilla Mt Airy and hope to create a full blown post dedicated to this native shrub next year.

As always, your feedback and advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

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Deer resistant perennials for wet soil

Posted on January 11, 2015 by jmarkowski Posted in Deer, How-to, Perennials .

A friend in town, who only recently became aware of this life changing blog, asked me for some plant recommendations. Oh shit. Typically I am not a fan of doling out plant advice because the pressure can become crippling.

If the recommended plant doesn’t survive, I’m scorned at the next basketball game.

If the suggested choice can’t be found at the local nursery, I’m no longer trustedย and the kids aren’t invited to any more birthday parties.

But I’m putting it all on the line today.

Without fear.

I am that confident with the choices I’m about to offer up. The following perennials (staying away from grasses for now; he’ll have to buy me lunch first) are very specific to the conditions we have here in zone 6B New Jersey. Throw in deer and rabbits galore. ย And a high water table which leads to very poor draining soil.

So my local homey, here are the top 7 perennials that I can vouch for based on my personal experience. Each has thrived for at least 5 years running and all show no signs of slowing down.

Click on the hyperlink for each plant name for additional info where applicable.

You are welcome in advance.

#1 – Joe Pye Weed – close to 6 feet tall, blooms are long lasting, attracts numerous critters ย and looks good all the way into the fall.

joe pye weed

joe pye and miscanthus

 

#2 – Amsonia – the deer have never touched it, great bluish blooms in spring followed by fine textured foliage all summer. But Fall is when it shines with unbelievable colors ranging from yellow to orange. ย ย 

amsonia2

amsonia

amsonia

 

#3 – Astilbe – no critter has ever touched it, appreciates oodles of moisture, blooms in white and pink and red in late spring and the fern like foliage separates itself from others. ย ย 

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astilbe3

 

#4 – Bee Balm – the scent keeps the deer at bay, the bees flock to it and the blooms last all summer and even into fall. I personally love the taller options which make their presence known in the garden.

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bee

 

#5 – Purple Coneflower – yes they are everywhere but it is still an oldie but goodie. Multiplies like mad so there is a full supply year to year. Consistent blooms without a care in the world. ย ย 

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moth3

 

#6 – Lobeliaย – cherishes the waterlogged soil and provides late summer blooms.

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blue lob

 

#7 – Mountain Mint – not the showiest, but what a critter magnet. I could stand over these in bloom all day.

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mint

We’ll talk again in spring dude but start doing your homework now if you want to continue to hang with me.

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Tags: amsonia, Astilbe 'Amethyst', Astilbe 'Deutschland', bee balm, joe pye weed, lobelia siphilitica, mountain mint, purple coneflower .

The deer mean well?

Posted on January 14, 2013 by jmarkowski Posted in Deer .
I remember the day like it was yesterday. It was July of 1985. I was 13 years old. My family had been vacationing “down the shore” (that is some NJ speak for you) when we returned home, exhausted after a week of doing nothing but frying in the sun. 
As we walked through the front door and into the kitchen, we were greeted by at least 20 plastic bags filled with immature looking veggies. The first thought was, “Wow, that’s nice, the people who were watching our house while we were away, left us some gifts from their gardens.” But then the reality quickly sunk in. Those were our f’n vegetables in those bags. And they were nowhere near ready to be eaten. 
I could see the disappointment on my father’s face. He was crushed. All of that time and effort in the spring and now we weren’t going to be able to enjoy the fruits of that labor. Turns out, a few kids in the neighborhood had taken it upon themselves to completely wipe our garden clean of all veggies that had just started emerging. I could have beaten them all senseless. But it was hard to be too angry for too long when ultimately, they had good intentions. 
I tell you that story because it came to me while I was surveying the garden this afternoon in the seasonably warm, but brutally foggy outdoors. I knew I would discover more deer damage based on the high volume of the f’ers I’ve seen of late. 
I would be right of course.
Here is an Arborvitae ‘Rheingold’ from just two days ago:                             

And here it is from earlier today:

The second shot looks better, right? Well that would be due to all of the growth chewed off by the deer. They actually ended up exposing the still green growth underneath all of that ratty discolored foliage that came on quickly once the temperature dropped.

Maybe the deer were doing me a favor, eh? Maybe they can sense my dissatisfaction with them and this is the first step to mending our relationship? Sort of hard to argue with them at this point.

And then I turned the corner and knew for sure. The deer were handing out the olive branch. I mean look at the stunning topiary they left for me:      

Pretty wild stuff. What do I have on my hands here? More research is required and you all will be the first to know the results.

After witnessing the deer artwork, I stumbled inside and grabbed myself a brew. Because I am a man of my word and told you I would start adding beer reviews to some of my posts, I give you the following:  

This IPA is of another world.

If it hasn’t passed Stone IPA to become the new #1 on my IPA ranking (soon to be published) it is a definite “1A”.

The citrus scents are intoxicating and the “heavy on the hoppishness” is right in my wheelhouse. There are even hints of pine in there and that is a big positive. I highly recommend this IPA if you are a fan as it is the best new beer I’ve tried in a long time.

It gets 9.5 blooms out of 10.

And one last thing, especially for my Canadian friends:

    
Welcome back NHL, we sorely missed you.

John

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How I deal with the deer

Posted on January 2, 2013 by jmarkowski Posted in Deer .
The deer count is completely out of hand: 

And I am dealing with it the only way I know how …

Taking it out on the kids:  

Disclaimer – no children were injured in the creation of this blog post:

John

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Deer fight caught on video

Posted on October 31, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Deer .

A video of the deer fight from yesterday:
 

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Hurricane Sandy aftermath, including a deer brawl

Posted on October 30, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Deer .

We are without power, have a few trees down and a wet basement after Hurricane Sandy passed through last night into this morning.

But we are safe and the damage is very limited. We were lucky unlike so many others. We have read a lot about the destruction via Twitter and have seen a few pics, but haven’t truly seen all that went down. Our hearts go out to all that were so deeply affected by Sandy’s wrath.

Just now, we were witness to two bucks brawling right in our backyard. Maybe they needed to get out some energy after the storm:

  

We actually thought that they were fighting to the death and started to approach them only to scream like mad when they both ran right at us in a frothy frenzy.

Hopefully will be back up and running soon.

John

  
        

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Tags: Hunterdon County .

Early signs of autumn … and deer karate

Posted on October 3, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Deer, Fall color .
Autumn is here and there isn’t a hell of a lot I can do about it. 
I miss the summer already but I vow not to wish my life away. It’s not that I dislike the fall as much as I despise the winter and fall is a reminder it’s not too far off.
But enough of my bitching …
There are signs all over the yard that “things are a changing”; some subtle and some not so subtle.
Come with me on a journey to view these changes, won’t you?
Miscanthus ‘Purpurascens’ is out of its mind with color right now:  

Hydrangea ‘Endless Summer’ bloomed like shit for me, but the foliage still looks good:

Viburnum fall color comes and goes real fast so I am enjoying it while I can:

Amsonia (Bluestar) is just now showing signs of its amazing fall color and when it is at its peak, I’ll probably dedicate an entire post to it:

Even the geraniums are joining the autumn color brigade:

Fall color on a Monarda ‘Bee Balm’ isn’t something I typically count on, but I’ll take it:

It may not be a foliage change, but the fading blooms on Helenium (Sneezeweed) always gives me the fall chills:

Not overly exciting, but the “yellowing” of the River Birch leaves backed by some serious “redding” is not so bad:

Not gonna lie, the transformation of this Panicum saddens me more than I am letting on:

The tour is complete … but it wouldn’t be fall without the deer taking up permanent residence in the landscape. And raising holy hell in the process.

We had a bit of a stare down:

He threatened me with some sort of “Karate Kid” like move:

And then he ran when I screamed bloody murder with fear of being karate chopped by this SOB.

Another day, another battle.

What I do for my garden …

John

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