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The sedum blooms have transformed into their coveted brick red color:
The Acorus gramineus ‘Oborozuki’ (also known as sweet flag but wanted to get my Latin on) are at their most vivid color right now and have truly enjoyed the sick amount of rain we’ve had the past two months:
Still loving the color of Thuja (Arborvitae) ‘Rheingold’:
And loving the sight of berries left behind as the trees shed their leaves:
Enjoy your weekend
John
I have thoroughly enjoyed writing this blog for the past year and a half but I have to admit, I’ve become a bit self absorbed.
It’s been all about coming up with an idea for a post, taking the photos, researching the details, writing the post and then editing it. And it doesn’t even end there; then the promotional push kicks in. I’ll share it on Facebook, tweet it out on Twitter, find ways for others to retweet it on Twitter, pay to have it added to a banner behind a plane (I kid), etc, etc.
What has been lost along the way is the pure enjoyment of educating myself by reading anything plant related I can get my hands on. Unfortunately, all of that reading and learning time has been replaced by the time it takes to put a blog entry together.
Well, within the past week, I’ve started to break that cycle and it feels damn good. It’s all about balance and I think I’m on my way. In celebration of my waning narcissism, I wanted to share the links of some other blogs I’m reading. Most are gardening related but there are a few that are not, but still think you may want to give them a read.
Here they are:
You can criticize social media like Twitter all you want, but there are so many interesting people I’ve met there with similar interests. One of them is Benjamin Vogt who writes the blog The Deep Middle. He gardens in Nebraska and is one smart horticultural dude. I am in the middle of reading his book “Sleep, Creep, Leap: The First Three Years of a Garden” which you can find in the Amazon link in my right sidebar. It’s the book I wish I could write, check it out.
If I had to pick my gardening doppelganger, it would be Scott at Rhone Street Gardens. We both share a serious obsession with ornamental grasses and I’m to the point that I just assume I’ll like whatever he likes. Scott gardens in Portland, OR and I guarantee you’ll love his blog if you aren’t already reading it.
While I was drawn in through the shared interest of gardening, I’m hooked on Kyna’s blog Crystal Coast Gardener because she is damn funny. There are plenty of gardening tales but what reels you in is her ability to capture the absurdity of every day life in a unique way. You never know what you are going to get and that my friends is entertainment.
I have gotten to know Allan Becker through his comments on my blog and I feel comfortable enough to call him a mentor even though we never met in person. I bet you I could drive up to Montreal and he would hand me a beverage and begin educating me on all his plants. Sort of like a Mr Miyagi/Daniel relationship in “Karate Kid”. OK, I’ve now become a level one stalker, sorry, just read his blog Allan Becker – Garden Guru and you’ll see what I mean.
Look, I am clearly in touch with my feminine side (not joking) and like me some flowers. When I am in that mood, I head out to Bella’s Rose Cottage for my fix. The site just oozes relaxation and is a true escape from the stress of every day life. Take a trip there and you’ll get what I’m saying.
Another great escape is the blog Gatsby’s Gardens. We’re talking flowers, foliage, containers, struggles and successes in the garden. As you read her posts, you immediately know this is someone who knows her stuff. She gardens in suburban Illinois and I promise you, you’ll enjoy her site immensely.
This next one is easy. Go to Hayefield, look at the photos and tell me that isn’t what you would imagine your gardens to look like in a perfect world. Nuff said.
I have to give a big shout out to my fellow Jerseyite Debbie, who authors the blog It’s All About Purple. We are talking some amazing photos here and I am specifically enamored with her wildlife photos taken “down the shore”. Just fantastic stuff and I’m sure you’ll agree.
And finally, if you are a sports fan or even a fan of good writing, please check out my friend’s blog Awkward Sandwich. While the grammar may be questionable, there is no denying the wit and great self deprecation. I am even a topic of discussion from time to time as we have an ongoing rivalry in all things we do. While he is wrong 99% of the time, you’ll still laugh at how passionate he is.
That is all for today and by no means did I hit on all of the blogs/websites I am currently reading. These are just a few that stand out and I hope to discuss more in a future post.
Enjoy!
John
Resolutions are crap.
If I had to estimate how often New Year’s resolutions are actually followed I would put it at 3.19%. Or in other words, close to never.
To prove my hypothesis, I took a look back at my gardening resolutions posted on December 30th of this year (You can read the original post here). I think I actually convinced myself that I could accomplish each of these but as you’ll see, homie failed miserably.
Let’s run through each of them:
1)I vow to include my children more in the gardening process
Didn’t happen.
My daughter had her moments:
But we’re still held back by the fear of bees and I do question her work ethic. Everything she draws includes a picture of a flower, but she isn’t willing to put in the necessary hard labor to grow one herself. I’ll tell you, the kids today do not understand what hard work means. Yes, she is 5 but that is no excuse.
Chances my son joins me in the garden: 0.01%:
2)I will stay on top of the pruning, especially those perennials that require it for size control
Damn, I’m a failure:
Where does time go? I have carefully created a spreadsheet that indicates when each of my perennials should be cut back and I still fail to actually do it. Pathetic.
3)I will grow even more of my own food and do it in a sensible way
This was an epic failure even after I planned it all out over the winter and purchased a ton of seeds. I started sowing the seeds too late and couldn’t keep up with the thinning and necessary watering. Here’s the best I could offer:
Again, pathetic and embarrassing.
4)I will dig like a champ, put my body through complete torture and revel in the pain
You’ll notice there are no accompanying photos. That’s because I ain’t got jack shit to show you.
5)I will continue to incorporate more and more native plants
Finally, a bit of success! I added …
Score one for ONG!
6)I will admit defeat to the deer
I still tried to sneak daylillies, geraniums and irises by those f’ers and they forgot about them up until about two weeks ago. Not too bad, but now I’m afraid I’m back to thinking I can outsmart them so I’m stuck in this evil vortex once again:
7)I will do my best to stop and “smell the roses” more often
Funny that I used roses in this one as I couldn’t grow a rose successfully even if I dedicated my life to trying. Anyway, as the kids get older and are more involved with sports and other activities, I find that my gardening time continues to shrink. What little time is available becomes very task oriented and time to just chillax doesn’t exist.
If you are scoring at home, that is 1 out of 7. Not good. In baseball terms, I’m hitting .143; below the Mendoza line and a definite reason to be benched.
I know I’ll come up with new resolutions for 2012 but maybe I’ll keep them a bit more realistic this year. Yeah right, I’m sure I’ll fall right back into the same trap but at least it is worth the comedic relief to look back at my glorious failures.
John
I’m a sucker for that copper red leaf color and was intrigued by the shape of the maple-like leaves. While it isn’t a true tropical, it has the look and feel of one and seems to incorporate well into the more northern landscape:
While it may emerge late in spring, it more than makes up for the late start by growing rapidly throughout the late spring/summer. The photo below was taken only about 2-3 weeks after the one above:
Hibiscus ‘Kopper King’ reaches a height of about 3 feet and a width of about 2 feet. She prefers full sun and I’ve found her to be quite sturdy without the need to stake at all.
One other bonus is the fall color she is putting on now:
So what do you think? Are you growing it and have additional pointers? Would you give it a try?
Have a great weekend!
John
The River Birch trees are ready to step up to the big leagues now that it is getting cooler. The yellow foliage is the appetizer with the peeling winter bark one mutha of an entree:
Amsonia and Itea ‘Henry’s Garnet’ are quite the dynamic duo, eh?
Have a great one!
John











































































