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The tragedy in Newtown, CT hits home

Posted on December 20, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

I’m not here today to debate gun control or mental health in the wake of the brutal tragedy at the Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, CT last Friday. Instead, I wanted to share something with you all that has tugged at my heartstrings since last Friday.

A classmate and friend from high school lost his daughter on Friday. This news brought these tragic events even closer to home. Having two young children myself, I can’t even begin to imagine what the family is going through and will go through in the days/weeks/years to come. There are no words to describe it.

The first thought was “How can I help in any way possible?”. The words of support on Facebook are overwhelmingly supportive but the truth is, what can we really do in a time like this? I have mulled it over for days and could not come up with anything.

But then I saw a new group that was formed on Facebook supporting the family’s wishes to have those looking to donate not send flowers to the family, but donate to the Animal Center in Newtown, CT. The family’s daughter Catherine was a huge lover of animals and what better way to honor her memory than to donate to such a worthy cause.

So I am here today not to pressure anyone into donating, but if you are willing and looking to donate in some capacity after this tragedy, please consider donating to The Animal Center.

You can access their Facebook page here.

And their website here.

You can also read the story of this beautiful little girl here.

Thank you for taking the time out to read this.

John

                    

        

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My favorite garden pics of 2012

Posted on December 18, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .
A quick heads up, this post will be a bit self-congratulatory for my liking. These are all pics I actually took myself (granted, anything great was most likely an accident).   
But then again, I am kind of awesome, so screw it. 
Here we go, a trip through the seasons:   
This best represents why I don’t cut down my perennials for the winter: 

This photo was taken at the Philadelphia Flower Show and it inspired me to some day design a garden with only ornamental grasses:

My attempt at taking advantage of lighting with this Hypericum:

Spring is in the air … and allergies too:

I have an unhealthy lust for Viburnums:

Love these Campanula blooms up close:  

An Allium bloom right before it “pops”:

The only Peony bloom that survived the deer this year.

I like how the bee appears to be holding on for dear life:

Just a cool ass looking macro shot of a bloom that you would never really notice from afar:

Just fantastic color on this Astilbe:

My best attempt at controlled chaos:

A reminder of why I love native plants so much:

I think this pic best represents my gardening style; ornamental grasses and native perennials:

Again, trying to take advantage of natural light:

I just like it, even if the colors clash a bit:

MMMMMMMMMMMM, ornamental grasses:

This makes the cut because my son actually took this one:

A Hydrangea bloom “aging” well:

How many more colors can we get in this Miscanthus:

Autumn and Hunterdon County, NJ – perfect together:

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What is this?

Posted on December 15, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

I’m begging you my peeps, can you identify this creature:

 
Lots of cash prizes to be doled out to the winners.

I have been chasing him/her all morning and now turn to you all for identification.

Thank you in advance,
John

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Taming the Northern Sea Oats

Posted on December 13, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .
I had been dying to get outside and in the garden so I could get my hands dirty. It had been way too long. 
So this past weekend, I grabbed my battery powered hedge clippers, kissed the family goodbye and headed into the mess that is my dying, wet garden.
There was a simple task at hand; cut down all of the Northern Sea Oats (Chasmanthium latifolium):         

Now normally, I leave all of the perennials and grasses up all winter to provide some level of winter interest and to provide food and shelter for the birds.

I’m thoughtful like that.

But with the Northern Sea Oats, it’s time to treat them with kid’s gloves:      

You see, these grasses reseed like mad. You can call them invasive in the right situation, which apparently is just what my landscape provides.

You can see all of the dying seedlings here:    

And there are plenty other seedlings that popped up out of the blue in different areas of the yard:

So my goal this year was to cut them down in the fall (of course, I wanted to do this weeks ago) and hopefully minimize the rampant reseeding. I realize I can’t account for each and every seed, but I’ll do my best to do just that.

So the haircut went down:

And now we wait and see what kind of impact this will have next spring/summer.

I really hope to keep these guys around for years to come as they are reliable and interesting from spring to winter. But if this reseeding nonsense continues down this not so great path, I’ll cut my losses and move on.

John  

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Framing an entrance

Posted on December 11, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .
Tonight we present you with yet another episode of “Looking back on how John f’ed up in the garden this year”:  
I have a garden design dilemma. 
Whenever I am planning a garden around an entrance way (and by “planning” I mean, planting without thinking) , I feel the need to “frame” said entrance or “bookend” the entrance with the same tree/shrub. It seems like the only viable option if I want the garden to look balanced and in sync.  
I’ve done this successfully in the past, but quite often, the strategy backfires. And looking back on this year, it failed miserably.
Example #1 – Below, you’ll see that there is a Hibiscus ‘Kopper King’ to the left of the landing that looks OK,  but the one on the right … not so much:      

Obviously, it makes the entrance way look completely out of balance, but I had no choice because the Hibiscus on the right was brutally destroyed/chowed down on in early summer:

So “a chopping” I went:

The obsessive part of me could not handle how this looked while hanging in the backyard, so I eventually moved both of the Hibiscus to another part of the yard. I figured I could survive this tragedy knowing that the back deck was still “framed” by the two large arborvitae (more on that in a few).

Example #2 – Below is a photo of the entrance from my driveway to the backyard. In a moment of panic (why I don’t recall) I planted two Caryopteris ‘Sunshine Blue’ at the front of this entrance. Once again, you can see that the shrub on the left gave up and threw in the towel once it hit three inches in height:      

Yet the one on the right thrived:

As much as it pained me to do it, I left this mess as is. But rest assured, they are both coming out this spring as we do the transplant dance once the ground is no longer frozen.

Example #3 – Remember the aforementioned Arborvitaes? Well that didn’t work out so well either.

Here they are looking OK late in the summer:

And then one got hit by the dreaded bagworm:

And the other nearly ripped out by Superstorm Sandy:

Losing the Arborvitaes may be a blessing in disguise but that is besides the point.

Even if the plants chosen to frame an entrance survive and thrive, if one is larger or fuller than the other, it can defeat the purpose of attempting to frame in the first place. It’s a roll of the dice that they will develop and grow together in perfect harmony.

That is why I am going to attempt to NOT match “like plants” in these examples above next spring. I will still attempt to frame, but with varying plants and a little creativity. Hopefully it will still look and feel similar, without having to be the perfect match. Does that even make an ounce of sense?

Feel free to offer up advice, we are always accepting feedback free of charge.

John        

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Now I know how to get the kids interested

Posted on December 8, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .
Last Sunday morning, my wife and I were still in bed sleeping (ahhh, the joys of the children getting older), when my daughter (who turns 7 today; happy b-day girlfriend) started yelling from downstairs. Even in an early morning stupor, I could tell from the scream that we weren’t being robbed and no one was bleeding. It was more of a “get your ass down here and check this out” scream. And my daughter is not one to cry wolf; it was probably worth checking out.
Turns out, there was an owl on top of the swing set in our backyard and everyone managed to catch a glimpse of it except me. I was too slow. But like the well schooled children that they are, they attempted to grab the camera and take a photo. Unfortunately, the owl had already disappeared at that point. And I know that it wasn’t a child’s imagination at work here, my wife confirmed that it was in fact an owl.
This scene has become commonplace of late, where we spot an animal through the sliding doors in the kitchen and out into the backyard. It’s as if the doors are framing this beautiful shot of nature at work. 
As I showed you last week, we witnessed a fox patrolling the ‘hood in the snow.
A few weeks ago, it was Deer Fight Club:

                 
Before that, we had the wandering pheasant:
There is a rule in the house where if someone sees any sign of animal/creature/prehistoric thing, they must let out a loud screech which signals all of us to drop what we are doing and head to the back of the house. It get the kids all excited and it is an awesome opportunity for us to drop some education on their impressionable minds.
And then today it all clicked in my somewhat limited brain stem. 
I have been trying to encourage the kids to join me in my gardening ventures, telling them “if we plant these perennials, the eventual flowers will attract hummingbirds” or “this tree, with its many berries will encourage the birds to visit” or “this dense tree will allow birds to lay their eggs in peace”. 
The focus was on the shovel and digging of the hole when it should have been on “look at this amazing hummingbird” or “isn’t that a cool looking bird” or “let’s watch the momma bird protect her newborns”. Maybe getting to know how the story ends first is the best way to get them to understand how we get there. 
And that is your deep thought for the day. 
But seriously, my next move is to walk the kids through all of my photos from this past year and show them just how many creatures wander in and out of our yard. I think they will be shocked. 
My son will be impressed with the House Finch and the fact that they were introduced to the east coast through New York City back in the 1940’s (or so the Internet says). Or even the fact that the male is the “red one”:                

My daughter would love to know that it is the Robin that lays all of those beautifully colored eggs:

Maybe now they’ll understand why Dad ignored their stories about school in order to hunt down the elusive  Eastern bluebird:

I’ll encourage them to wow their friends by reeling off the little factoid that this isn’t a “Red Headed” woodpecker but a “Red-bellied” woodpecker:

This thing is just ugly as sin but we can’t ignore the fact that it takes care of all of the roadkill for us, and that is an underrated task:

We can all rejoice in the fact that I finally got a somewhat decent shot of the Ruby-crowned kinglet:

I can teach them all about the benefit of native plants and how they provide an environment that allows our winged friends to thrive:

We can all practice imitating the tune of the Catbird:

And won’t they be thrilled to know that the American Goldfinch is the state bird of New Jersey:

Even I forgot just how many birds I’ve tracked down this year. Good for me!

I really think I found the key to eventually get the kids to dig all of the holes in the garden for me. It starts with the birds and other wild animals and eventually makes it way back to what we need to plant and why.

Well played John … well played indeed.

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Random pics

Posted on November 30, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .
Some photos I’ve taken the past few weeks.   

 

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That was fast

Posted on November 28, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .
Some “Before and After” pics after our recent snowstorm:
Joe Pye Weed
Viburnum
Purple Coneflower 
Purple Fountain Grass
Miscanthus

More grasses 

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What went well this year

Posted on November 27, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .
Last week I riffed on my frustrations and failures from this past gardening season and it reminded me, yet again, how frickin hard it is to grow a damn flower. I think my pass/fail rate is at about 50% and shows no signs of improving.
But enough of the negativity …
Upon further inspection/reflection, there were also a number of successes this past year. Since I am a “glass mostly/kinda empty” type guy, it can be difficult for me to admit to things that went well. Not to mention, the failures are funnier and wonderful fodder for my self loathing. 
But sometimes, things work out alright. It may have been luck, a green thumb, the use of “fool proof plants” or a combo of all three; whatever it was, let us celebrate a bit today, OK? 
Here are six positives, dating back to early spring of 2012:
1). New plant introductions to my landscape: This is a given each year as we all add to our ever growing plant collection. As I scoured through my incredibly complex plant spreadsheet and sorted it by month purchased and then read the corresponding comments, I found that most of these plants actually thrived in year one. How you like me now? 
Without diving into any level of detail, here are my winners. 
Bulbs first:      
Daffodil ‘Kokopelli’

Daffodil ‘Double Beauty’

Allium ‘Purple Sensation’
And the perennials: 
Iris versicolor

Geranium ‘Karmina’

Astilbe ‘Amethyst’

Astilbe ‘Amethyst’

Bee Balm ‘Colrain Red’

Northern Sea Oats ‘River Mist’

Geranium ‘Espresso’

And one shrub in the mix:

Hydrangea ‘Little Lime’

We’ll see how things progress in 2013, but for now, I’ll bask in the initial glory.

2). Blooming trees in spring: For most of you, this is a given. But for me, this has been a struggle since I moved into our home back in 2004. There wasn’t a tree of any significance on the property, so it has been a slow climb to make it more tree-mendous.

Nothing beats those first tree blooms of spring and this is the first year where I felt like I was invited to the party. Here is what I had going on back in April and May:

Serviceberry ‘Autumn Brilliance’:

Hawthorn ‘Winter King’:      

Plum ‘Thundercloud’:

I hope to add more in the near future but unfortunately, money doesn’t grow on …

3). Existing plants that exploded out of nowhere: These are all plants that had been progressing decently the past year or two, but then put on an awesome show like never before. Or a better way of putting it:

“Plants I some how managed not to tinker with too much so they actually had a chance to establish themselves”.      

They include:

Panicum ‘Northwind’

Mountain mint

Salix ‘Hakuro Nishiki’

Salix ‘Hakuro Nishiki’

Iris siberica ‘Snow Queen’ 

Iris siberica ‘Snow Queen’

Miscanthus ‘purpurascens’

4). The benefits and fun involved with experimental pruning: Back in June, I created my “Prune in June” series (I’m a killer rhymer), which was all about strictly following the pruning for size/delay in bloom laid out so beautifully almost a decade before by Tracy DiSabato Aust.

I picked four different perennials to experiment with and all taught me something unique.

I like the look of a sedum when cut back as it produced more flower heads and delayed bloom later into Fall when color is at a premium:    

By cutting back significantly in early June, I was able to keep my Boltonia upright into September:

I really like the layered look achieved when pinching back the lower blooms on a mass of Joe Pye Weed:

And finally, despite all of my efforts to keep Sneezeweed standing at attention:

I realized it may be an impossible task, even after pruning for size control along the way:

5). Get to know your weeds as well: Back in the summer, I wrote a post on Red Sorrel and through my own research and reader comments, I realized I went about its eradication all wrong:

Remember, weeds are plants too and they all have unique traits that change how you confront them. Hoping to do more of the same in the new year.

6). Got to know my camera much better: My wife gave me a lesson with a local photographer and it completely changed how I look at photography. While I still rely on the “Auto” function a bit too much, at least I have an understanding of shutter speed and aperture.

Trying to capture action shots became a hell of a lot easier:        

What does that have to do with gardening you say? Well it helped me identify the beauty of movement in the garden and hopefully these pics are only the tip of the iceberg:

Camera upgrade in the future? All depends on the Powerball results Wednesday night.

So there you have it.

Me singing my own praises.

Feels a little dirty. I need to screw something up real quick.

John    

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Wordless Wednesday – Don’t go any further

Posted on November 21, 2012 by jmarkowski Posted in Uncategorized .

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