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Fading

Posted on September 8, 2016 by jmarkowski Posted in My garden, Summer, Winter interest .

We have arrived at the initial stages of the the time of year when I get pissed off at a lot of my gardening brethren. When I say brethren, I mean anyone who has personally planted at least 19 plants within the past 3 years. I didn’t just make up those numbers, they have been carefully curated over time.

Plus I only work in odd numbers as all gardeners should.

My data shows me that this ratio properly identifies what I’ll call the “kind-of-into-it-gardener”. Anything less than that and the term gardener cannot be attached to those fools people. This is a crucial distinction and one I suggest you borrow/steal moving forward.

Here is why I get all sorts of perturbed:

We are nearing the end of summer and with it, the end of the line for so many perennials. They’ve worked their asses off for weeks/months on end. They’ve given us nothing but joy all spring/summer and now they are ready to take a seat, drop their petals and enjoy some much needed down time. All well deserved.

But by no means does that require us to cut them down, clean them up and remove all signs of their existence. I liken that nonsense to those people who chuck their Christmas trees on December 26th or put away the holiday decorations the day after. Take a breath, relax and allow nature to do its thing. If you look at it through the appropriate lens, it is a wondrous thing.

Yes, I openly embrace the fact that I can be a bit obsessive and compulsive and neurotic in my own garden and hypocritical from time to time.

True story interlude: I announced my distaste for sedums earlier this week because they weren’t native enough and didn’t fit into my garden aesthetic here in the Northeast U.S. This afternoon I just bought two Yucca plants for containers on my deck. Hypocrite much?

But one thing I’ve done, or not done I should say, since gardening stole my heart back in the late 90’s, is cut down my perennials. I’ve always left them standing even when my OCD tendencies were telling me to cut, cut, cut. I enjoy them around all fall and winter and implore all of the “make it nice and neat” crowd to do the same. You want reasons why? Here are just some off the top of my head:

  1. Enjoy the life cycle – from emergence in spring, to peak in summer, to the slow death in fall and dormancy in winter, I love it all. It is how it works in the wild and the way it is supposed to be. Embrace it.
  2. You’ll remember what is planted where – this is very underrated. No more issues with mistaking a newly emerging perennial as a weed or digging one up accidentally when planting in spring.
  3. The birds and bugs need it – a place of respite or food source for so many. I like nothing more than watching the finches hit up my coneflowers in winter.
  4. They look good covered in ice and snow – I’ll take any additional winter interest I can get. And bare garden space is not attractive.

So friends, family, some time acquaintances and strangers, accept the demise of your plants.

Do a lot by doing nothing.

Clean the pruners and stow them away.

Accept a bit of chaos.

Give the bees one last chance to enjoy the Agastache.

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Remember how that vivid orange color excited you in mid summer.

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Don’t forget that brown is a color.

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And thank your Bee Balm for the endless entertainment they provided all summer drawing in all of those bees and butterflies.

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QOTD: What perennial do you enjoy most in fall/winter?

 

 

 

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Winter garden appreciation

Posted on January 21, 2016 by jmarkowski Posted in Blooms, Winter interest .

I despise the cold weather and it is getting worse and worse as I get older.

I hate the snow and I do not find it to be the least bit “cozy”. It physically hurts my eyes to even glance at it.

I don’t ski and find sledding to be way overrated.

But even after having said all that, I have come to appreciate the winter garden. It is a reminder of what was, a chance to rest and recharge and at the same time, a promise of what is to come.

I recently put on my big boy pants and a warm jacket, and set out to capture just some of the plants in the winter garden. After reviewing all of the photos I had taken, I realized that I had similar shots of those same plants during the spring and summer. So as a means of contrast, I’ve included the most current pic and then one from earlier when it warm and delicious outdoors.

Enjoy.

Tropical milkweed, which is an annual and one that reseeded for me this past year.

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milkweed

 

Eupatorium ‘Wayside’ which looks like the annual Ageratum but is truly a perennial.

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A combo of Bee Balm, Joe Pye Weed and Clethra ‘Hummingbird’.

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Juniper ‘Wichita Blue’, Bee Balm and Panicum ‘Rots’.

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Salix ‘Hakuro Nishiki’ (Dappled Willow) with its awesome stem colors.

salix winter stems

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Amsonia tabernaemontana looking cool and curly. Still a personal favorite of mine during all seasons.

amsonia winter

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I love the dried seed capsules of Baptisia and admittedly have yet to explore how to save the seeds. That is what winter is all about, research and reading.

baptisia seed capsules 2

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Sedum ‘Red Carpet’ peeking through what little snow we have right now.

red carpet winter

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And old reliable, the Purple Coneflower. I always enjoy watching the finches pay a visit and feast on the seedheads.

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Tags: baptisia, bee balm, coneflower, eupatorium wayside, tropical milkweed .

ONG is back

Posted on December 22, 2015 by jmarkowski Posted in Winter interest .

ONG is back for one day that is.

I may have changed focus on this blog (for better or worse, discuss) but the ONG will always be chilling in my DNA. The love of gardening and even the love of garden writing never waned, I just wanted to open myself up to other writing possibilities … blah blah blah … I’ll stop there. You are all very busy and most likely skipped over this paragraph any way because the photos to follow are so damn enticing and invigorating when there is very little color out there in our El Nino inspired abnormally warm landscape that my kids tell me is ruining the Christmas feel but I’m all like, this rules, especially when you have to take a new puppy out in the middle of the night to do her business when it’s difficult to focus, let alone carry a dog and put on warm clothes before heading out into the wildlife filled night which threatens to devour your now 4.6 lb mutt.

So here’s a chance to escape for a few minutes as I compiled all of my favorite photos of my garden (narcissistic much?) from this past year with a quick blurb as to why I enjoy each pic so much.

Time for you to now enjoy:

It took me a while to jump on the Baptisia bandwagon but the deer have ignored them, they’ve bloomed like mad for two years running and that color is potent as all hell, in a great way.

moth on baptisia

 

A little yellow Baptisia as well and love the way they peek above the slowly emerging grass in the foreground.

baptisia carolina moon

 

My first white peony bloom on this plant. Hopefully many more to come in the years that follow.

peony white

 

An early season view of my favorite part of the garden when the sun sets each afternoon and provides incredible back lighting of the plants. More of these same views to follow.

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I picked up a Clematis at a trade show (Mr. Important that I am) and planted it just to keep it alive before I figured out what to do with it. Month later it bloomed hammering home the point that it is better to be lucky than good.

clematis

 

A spring bulb combo, I’m like a garden designer or something. Normally I’m just happy to see one Daffodil on a plant. Go me!

daffodil and hyacinth

 

I’m easily excited, so seeing an actual hummingbird was a big deal to me.

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Allium ‘Drumsticks’ are seriously the cats’s meow. This was my first experience with them and pray they come back even stronger next spring.

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The beauty of rainy and foggy weather and the power and beauty of the ornamental grass.

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Repetition is pleasing to the eye.

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And the winner of the foliage color of the year goes to Ninebark ‘Amber Jubilee’, which is also the name of an exotic dancer and a My Little Pony character.

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The colors clash a bit, but all of these blooms create quite the buzz when the bees flock to them in summer.

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This represents the peak of the garden, when all of the Joe Pye Weed are in bloom. Oh how I miss it.

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I love how the coneflower blooms are reaching towards the sun and how the Astilbe in the background have granted them the OK to take center stage.

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Remember that favorite view I mentioned a few photos back? Here it is again in the sweetheart of summer.

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A color combo I love and only got to enjoy this summer since the deer left the daylillies alone for the first time in years. Thank you deer.

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My garden will be completely taken over by Bee Balm in 2021 and I’ll love it. The humming moth agrees with me as well.

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Yes, purple coneflowers are everywhere, but how can we complain when something like this happens?

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Remember that view? Yes, here it is again.

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Fly milkweed seed, fly.

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Yes, again.

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The frost in fall is beyond magical.

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Brown, as a color, is way underrated.

fall planter bed

 

 

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Dreaming of spring bulbs

Posted on March 5, 2015 by jmarkowski Posted in Bulbs, Winter interest .

Back in New Jersey and this is me in a nutshell.

Since November

A photo posted by john markowski (@jmarkowski0) on Mar 4, 2015 at 6:29pm PST

     

My likeness right? I worked long and hard on that design.

Dude is kind of ripped by the way.

We had 8 more inches of snow today, are in the single digits tonight and tomorrow and it literally feels like we will not thaw out until June.      

Spring not far off right? Right? A photo posted by john markowski (@jmarkowski0) on Mar 5, 2015 at 5:06pm PST

 

Photos of the snow have gotten old.

Looks cool … still hate winter. #winter #garden

A photo posted by john markowski (@jmarkowski0) on Mar 5, 2015 at 5:04pm PST

 

So I’ll just dream of what is lurking under all of that the snow instead. I have never longed for spring bulbs this much in my friggin life.

Enjoy and you’re welcome.

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If you like winter, don’t read this

Posted on February 25, 2015 by jmarkowski Posted in Winter interest .

This is the best representation of how it has looked outside for weeks running now.

winter lawn

Hurts the eyes doesn’t it? That is what my entire yard looks like right now.

It’s so icy that the deer are all like “No dude, a bite out of that Holly isn’t worth the risk of breaking an ankle.”

The New York Rangers called and wanted to lease the space for an upcoming practice.

I am not a fan of it or winter, just in case you didn’t know that already.

Our winter routine has become:

  • Wake up and say “Good morning wife.”
  • Walk downstairs, look out window, become blinded.
  • Pop advil like they are Tic Tac’s.
  • Mumble angrily to myself while making coffee.
  • Glance in mirror and wonder who that old man is.
  • Drink first cup of coffee, slide down the back of front door and pray for the strength to make it through.
  • Wake up the kids and blame them for my winter malaise.
  • Speak with said wife while getting dressed and after we are both properly caffeinated, about moving away from this ASAP.
  • Realize we are both late for work and agree to discuss at a later date.
  • Drive bobsled to bus stop and see kids off to school.
  • Walk on crunchy driveway, sprain ankle a bit and get in cold car.
  • Listen to Howard Stern on ride to work and wish I had his job.
  • Complete work day.
  • Drive home and dream big about “getting out”.
  • Freeze ass off walking from car to house.
  • Sit down at dinner together, repeat nightly lecture as to why no TV will be on, talk about our days and say “One more day closer to spring.”
  • Homework, next day prep.
  • Escape it all briefly through some web surfing and a little TV.
  • Turn on heated mattress pad in preparation for bed.
  • Go to bed and say “I love this heated mattress pad”.
  • Repeat.

Please, no lectures about the wonders of winter and enjoying each day. I get it. I really do. It’s just not for me. Maybe one day I’ll mature and look back and scold my middle aged self.

Speaking of maturity, what else is there to do in order to cope? For starters, stomping on the ice to break up the glare and to let off some steam is kind of awesome.

winter foot steps

Incredibly liberating. Mature? Not so much.

Maybe take some photos of plants in winter and pretend to embrace it? OK, I’m in.

plants in winter

 

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plants in winter 4

 

plants in winter 5

That was … temporarily nice.

The real cure? Head to Florida for MLB spring training.

Later this week, be on the lookout for live action shots of fields of green, the pops of ball hitting glove and the cracks of angry bats. We are looking at temps in the 70’s.

The boys of summer have returned and I am fired up.

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Weekend photos

Posted on February 17, 2015 by jmarkowski Posted in Family, Winter interest .

Yes, I enjoyed the extreme winter weather. I have the right to do that every once in a while.

Enjoy the pics.

Turn your sound up for this one. It adds to the enjoyment.

Valentines Day sledding

A video posted by john markowski (@jmarkowski0) on Feb 14, 2015 at 1:24pm PST

 

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Action shot

 

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Getting air

 

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As you would imagine, big guy on little sled didn’t end well.

 

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My daredevil and sweetest little girl on earth.

 

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Putting a smile on my face since 1990.

 

Notice to all deer … please return to your homes … there is an angry homeowner on the loose. A photo posted by john markowski (@jmarkowski0) on Feb 17, 2015 at 11:13am PST

 

Hiding from the deer?

The hydrangea are hanging in there.

A photo posted by john markowski (@jmarkowski0) on Feb 17, 2015 at 8:57am PST

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After the snow is gone

Posted on December 4, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Ornamental grass, Winter interest .

Now that all of the snow has melted, it has become obvious again just how much my garden is dominated by ornamental grasses. Call me crazy, but I’ll take all of the browns/buffs/beige/reddish browns over the white stuff any day. I find it oddly soothing, especially during one of our warmer and foggy days like today.

I kid you not, these pics are all from different sections of the garden even if they appear to be repeats. Even I had to look twice at some of these. I guess you can’t have too much of a good thing.

It was hard to locate angles without a grass in the shot, but I did manage to find a few.

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grass winter 8

 

winter salix

 

arborvitae rheingold winter

 

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grass winter 10

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Winter insanity

Posted on February 14, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Winter interest .

A foot of snow again today (ho hum) and we are due for another 5-10 inches this evening.

Throw in the “thunder snow” we are experiencing right now and you got some wacky climate action going on. I still blame all of the girls I went to high school with in New Jersey in the 80’s and their hair spray fetishes. They clearly contributed to destroying the ozone layer and now we are experiencing the consequences.

My seasonal affect disorder is at an all time high and I lost it today. My poor family. I was pacing and mumbling too myself all afternoon, ready to explode. Throw in the fact that my snow blower wasn’t working and you had one crazy mutha f’er.

So without hesitation, I grabbed my shovel and shoveled my entire driveway. By hand. All two feet of the wet snow and ice. Like a looney tune. For two hours.

Check it out. I was like Jesse Pinkman on the blue stuff.   

And after that unfathomable physical feat, I still had time to make this snowman with the kids.

And yes you are correct, the snowman’s arms are Joe Pye Weed stems. 

I feel better now and my family is happy to have me back.

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The joy of winter

Posted on February 4, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Winter interest .

Another day, another foot of snow. No biggie. We got this.

And we are due for another six inches of snow tonight.

And if early forecasting models are to be believed, another foot this weekend.

Here’s to winter interest!

At this pace, the kids will be going to school in July.

But they aren’t complaining.

They have been keeping themselves busy.

Me, on the other hand … I’m done with it.

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Polar vortex’ing

Posted on January 23, 2014 by jmarkowski Posted in Winter interest .

Yep, more snow …

Still seems welcoming doesn’t it? Doesn’t it?

There is a young redtwig dogwood buried under there:

A feel for the amount of snow we were blessed with:

The bright sun provided some really cool shadows on the glistening untouched snow:

Why we keep the grasses up for winter:

I could hear the sedums quietly whispering “Help me”:

Awesome peeling bark on the Hawthorn ‘Winter King”:

And through it all, the Karl Foerster grasses remain upright:

The deer have been busy … you know how something is so ugly it can actually be cute? Yeah, me neither: 

A little bit of play time outside and someone was wiped the hell out:

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Tags: snow .
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