The writer’s block is gone and thank you for all of your comments on the last post. They truly meant a lot to me.

I hope it didn’t come off like “Boo hoo, I have nothing for my blog, woe is me, life is over.” I just really felt uninspired at the time as it had been “guns a blazing” since the inception of this little project. I knew it would happen, know it will happen again, but I ain’t stoppin any time soon. This is too much fun.

So, my mindset today was one of appreciation of all that I have as I wandered the premises. I thought, I’ll share these feelings with you all, because my narcissistic brain told me, you all care so deeply.

Onward …

I am happy to have discovered the awesome yellow foliage and love of wet soil sweet flag and carex enjoy. 

As the garden season comes to a close, I sit here and reflect on my first year writing a garden blog. I ask myself, “John, what did you gain from this writing gig?”. And I say:

• I have met some fantastic people 
• I have given myself a chance to do something creative and fun
• I have learned a ton from reader comments and feedback

But then, the skies opened up and provided me with the biggest benefit of all – I GET TO FOOL ALL OF YOU.

I never realized the magic of the camera when taking photos of the garden. It is like the yard is full of vain and superficial actors and actresses who insist on only being filmed from a certain angle. And I couldn’t be happier to oblige.

So I now provide you with the photos that unearth my dirty little secrets. I feel like the magician who gives up his secret as to how he really doesn’t cut the damsel in distress in half with a saw. But, I digress:

So when all looks gloomy out in the yard, I just strategically avoid all the “bad” and only give you the “good”. Consider it my little gift to you all to make your day that much better.

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These photos were taken out and about in Hunterdon County, NJ – specifically in Stockton, Sergeantsville and Rosemont.

For other awesome Fall photos check out http://www.growingthehomegarden.com/2010/09/fall-color-project-2010.html. 

Some people count sheep.


Some listen to soft soothing music. 


Others drink warm milk.


Me … I analyze an open spot in the garden and determine what I will plant there when I wake up the next day.

I often have a hard time falling asleep at night. And it is completely self induced. In fact, I enjoy the inability to sleep, it is truly a chance to let the brain run it’s course while everyone else is out cold. And here’s the kicker, I drink a half pot of caffeinated coffee every night after the kids are asleep. You say “dumb”, I say “this is where my genius is born”.    

Last night was no exception. Here is what I obsessed over while the rest of the world slept:

As you can see in the photos above, I have an open spot behind the Siberian iris, the carex and the dwarf variegated miscanthus. And here is a snapshot of the thoughts that ran through my over-caffeinated cranium:

• Like the amateur designer that you are, why do you have three similarly shaped plants together in the same spot?
• Should I move them now? Or leave until Spring?
• If they stay, you need something evergreen in that spot.
• And something deer resistant.
• And able to handle wet feet at times since the water drains off of the driveway.
• Nothing fits any of that criteria and you’re dumb to stress over it.
• Can’t you make better use of this time to analyze something important?

And if that weren’t enough, here is another site that was ripe for more of my over analysis:

And more rambling sleep deprived thoughts:

• An open prominent spot right next to the garage needs some serious attention.
• Having a single holly, a single arborvitae, a single clethra and a single barberry all together; I’m thinking they do not teach that to wanna be designers.
• With self deprecation now complete, you know you need a massed perennial in that spot, preferably something upright to off set the rounded shape of the nearby shrubs.
• Maybe I can divide more of the Siberian irises … no too late in the season for that.
• Maybe some of my beloved smaller ornamental grasses … nah … need some full season floral interest there.
• Maybe some daylilies … nope … the deer will dine on them.
• Here we go again dumb ass … you’ve created a quandary with no easy solution.
• Can my wife hear me? Am I talking out loud? Am I really this neurotic?

Needless to say, nothing has been resolved even after a long period of analysis. Guess there is always tonight to revisit it again.

Good times indeed!
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One of the benefits of writing this blog is that it forces me to do some research on a topic before I submit the post. While I some times revel in my failures or lack of understanding, I also like to think I may be able to educate some of you based on real experiences I’ve had. I’ve gained incredible knowledge in the process and you may even respect me a bit after reading. We’ll call it a “win, win”.

I wandered the yard late yesterday afternoon, camera in hand, and found some things I hadn’t noticed before.

I was moving some mulch and soil around for a potential planting spot and was greeted by some familiar creatures:    

White grubs! These are usually discovered when they destroy the roots of the lawn but I found these just chilling in the garden bed. There were quite a few in a two foot square area but I didn’t notice any others nearby. I’ll hold off for now on doing anything about it. Maybe throw a prayer in there as well. Best option seems to be releasing predatory nematodes to counter these bastards but that seems too involved for me. And I will not use any insecticides. More to come.

Not too far away from grubville was a big patch of fungi I’ve noticed before but always ignored since it didn’t seem to do any damage.
     

Brought up Google and determined these to be “bird’s nest” fungi. They look like little nests with tiny eggs inside. They are commonly found in wet mulch or wood piles and from all indications, do not bring on any harm. No sweat and it’s pretty cool to now know the true name. I can’t wait to identify this for someone else and be all smug about it.

OK, your science lesson is now complete. On to some other photos I snapped during my late afternoon jaunt:

True confession … I watched the the entire Martha Stewart interview on Oprah yesterday.

Hold on, wait, did you hear that noise? That was my credibility jumping in the car and driving away at breakneck speed. Oh well.

Seriously, I watched the interview without any prodding from my wife and I was completely riveted the entire time. I am so fascinated by “Martha” and yesterday’s appearance on Oprah did not disappoint.

 A few of the highlights for me:

• The fact that she built figurines for a nativity scene while in prison feels like it should be a Saturday Night Live skit.
• Martha jokingly criticizing Oprah for not visiting her while in prison added a nice level of tension to the interview.
• Martha claiming she doesn’t need more than a grilled cheese sandwich if you were to invite her over for lunch. And then the next segment was she and Oprah making the most extravagant grilled cheese sandwiches with more choices than you’ll ever see (I swear I saw anchovies on the table).
• A visit to Martha’s estate in Maine where even though the cameras were rolling, she couldn’t hide her disdain for her staff as she ordered them to make crab sandwiches and make flower arrangements.
• But the best of all for me was the tutorial on how to fold a fitted sheet. A video is the only way to give this the true comedic value it deserves. Click here for the video. Who would go through the effort to ever do this? Fascinating!

On a long ride home from Virginia this past summer, we spent at least an hour listening to Martha’s radio show on Sirius where she answers questions from callers. Just priceless! Even the kids got the humor that is Martha Stewart and they did a decent job of imitating her voice and annunciations.

I must admit I respect Martha’s drive and will to succeed and appreciate what she has built from the ground up. Her gardens are incredible and she does share tips even I can grasp. But, the comedic value will always outweigh it all for me.

I leave you with a Halloween costume I found on Martha’s website. It is made out of coffee filters. Damn she rules! Click here for it.

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It is bittersweet, but just like super group Wilson Phillips sang, I hope these blooms can “Hang on for one more day”.