The Obsessive Neurotic Gardener

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Posted on April 22, 2022 by jmarkowski Posted in Family .

“I wish there was a way to know you’re in the good old days before you’ve actually left them.”

–Andy Bernard (The Office)

“What day is it?” asked Pooh.
“It’s today,” squeaked Piglet.
“My favorite day,” said Pooh.”

–A.A. Milne

Quotes that seem easy to live by, yet they get pushed aside by, “What’s next?”, “Where do we have to be in an hour?” and “What else is there?”

Last weekend was not one of those times.

I felt it while I was in it. I knew it was a moment in time never to be forgotten and one we’d rehash for years to come. That’s what we chase and when we do it right, well it’s fucking blissful.

My son is a sophomore at the University of Pittsburgh and we spent Easter weekend with him.

Armed with an agenda so thoroughly researched and carefully crafted by my wife, we gave my son a simple choice: here’s what we’ve got planned, tell us where you’re in and where you’re not; no feelings hurt when you pass.

We ate real well (and he was with us for those, shocking I know) and visited the must see spots like the Duquesne Incline.

We toured the campus, with my son obliging our request to trace the walks he takes each day to and from class, to and from the gym and to and from other spots he frequents. As my son shared tidbits along our journey, I felt overwhelmed with pride, overwhelmed with “where did the time go?” and overwhelmed with, “I want to go back to the beginning too.”

You know it had to have been a great time if all members of the Markowski family agreed to a selfie.

Damn they’re good people.

I’ll spare you any more sappiness and share some pics from the Phipps Conservatory (which my son bowed out of in favor of sleep).

Have a great weekend all.

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4 Responses

  1. Raymond J Walter says
    April 23, 2022 at 1:30 pm

    Enjoyed your comments and photos

  2. Laura says
    April 23, 2022 at 11:11 pm

    The very best part of this post was that you recognized what an important set of moments you were experiencing.

  3. Bess Simons says
    April 24, 2022 at 1:04 pm

    Loved this. Our older son went to Pitt too. It’s a great city!

  4. MARY MAXWELL says
    April 25, 2022 at 3:52 pm

    I love Phipps! Am glad you got to go and attached pics. I haven’t been there for a couple of years.

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